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Romance Fraud Is Abuse. It Deserves a Criminal Response.

Romance fraud is not “just a scam.” It’s a calculated act of emotional manipulation, psychological grooming, and financial coercion. Victims are not foolish, they are targeted. And yet, too often, they are left unsupported, disbelieved, or told, “This isn’t a police matter.”

This page exists to shift that culture.

Here, we equip officers, safeguarding teams, investigators, prosecutors, and legal professionals with tools to recognise the real harm, ask the right questions, and treat victims with the dignity and seriousness they deserve.


Why Your Response Matters

For many victims, reporting to police is one of the hardest steps, because it means saying out loud: “I was groomed.”
How their disclosure is received often determines whether they seek help again, or retreat further into shame and silence.

Dismissal can feel like re-victimisation.
Belief can begin the healing.
Recognition of the abuse can be life-changing.

You may be the first person to call it what it is: a crime.


What You’ll Find Here

  • Trauma-informed response guides and interview tips
  • Understanding of coercion, control, and parallels to domestic abuse
  • Victim language coaching detection and emotional cues
  • Common fraud scripts and digital deception tactics
  • Awareness tools and briefings for frontline and specialist teams
  • Potential offences to investigate (depending on the type of romance fraud)

Victims of romance fraud are often told it’s their fault.
You have the power to rewrite that narrative.
To recognise abuse in its most modern form.
To treat manipulation through love with the same seriousness we treat manipulation through violence.

This is where justice begins, not just with prosecution, but with belief.
Explore the tools. Raise the standard. Be the difference.